She told me she had 2 dreams about me. It seemed obvious to me that she like me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Theres this girl at work that I really like. Its been going on for 10 months now and it's driving me crazy. I think i've fallen for her. It started off with her flirting with me when I had a girlfriend. She would throw something at me every time she passed my desk. Once she took a picture of me and put it on this little cut out and wrote "D**YBoy" on it. Then she layed it on my chair. She told me she had 2 dreams about me. It seemed obvious to me that she like me. So when I broke up with my gf I asked her out even though I knew she had been seeing someone. She told me she couldn't because of the guy she was seeing. So I said I was happy she had somebody (talk about a whoosy reply lol). Then as I started leaving she said "But but but....its not neccessarily a permanent thing :). And I didn't know how take this. So it got really weird for awhile and we didnt' talk much. After about a month she broke up with her bf, that was probably my chance but I didn't take it. She goes in spells where she flirts with me a lot for a week or two. Then all the sudden she can barely speak to me for a couple weeks. I still say hi to her but she can barely get a word out. Sometimes just jibberish comes out lol. Now she's seeing someone again, and I heard she's even considering moving in with him. But still goes off and on with flirting with me. One day she cornered me and tried to make me buy her a pop , then got really close to my face and hit me saying you didn't even realize I did something to my hair. I tried to buy a pop a couple times and she declined, but yet she kept passing my desk going "wheres my pop". That same day when she did all this, she came over to me and asked me if there was somebody I thought she should fix me up with? A friend of mine was nearby. She asked me about this other girl she worked with. This confused the heck out of me. Then She seems so shy sometimes, but then sometimes she'll go out of her way to pay attention to me. I think she's got some metnal issues. But none the less I really like her, sometimes I'll say something funny and she'll laugh and turn all red and put her head down. Its just so uncofortable around her sometimes because of how she can be so quiet. And then get this when she does flirt with me or mock me. For instance if were coming into work together at the same time or getting off the elevator together. You would think she'd want to walk out with me and talk, but she walks faster and ahead of me. Its just so confusing. And then she gets really mad when she knows i'm seeing somebody and raises her voice as if I've done something wrong. Anyway is there anything I can do? I would think if she's possibly moving in with this guy that she wouldn't even be interested in me. But she often seems to be. Another thing she's 20 and I'm 28.
It's hard to understand what makes her tick!
Don't you wish sometimes you could just ask her "what's going on?... sometimes you flirt with me... and sometimes you act like I don't exist."
Guess what? You CAN ask her that and maybe find out once and for all what's going on in her mind.
That's my advice. Ask her out for lunch or somehow get her alone where you can ask her some serious questions instead of all the flirting.
Best of luck!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com