I can be obsessed with like ten guys at the same time!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I really want to make more guy friends because girls always cause so much drama, but I always end up with a crush on them and some of these guys arn't even friends yet some I've never said more than two words to. It's like everytime a I see a good looking guy I become obsessed with him, and I can be obsessed with like ten guys at the same time! I have always wanted a boyfriend, is this me getting desperate or am I just a raging ball of hormones. The biggest problem is that all of the guys that I like are either totally out of my league or I can never become good enough friends with them to have them like me back. Seriously, every other guy I see I think about going out with! Is this normal?!
You are going to have to make a high profile appearance to all these guys.
Take care of you personal hygiene, dress nicely, smile at everybody and say hello (use their name) whenever you pass a boy you like. Keep smiling and then after you know them ask them how they are doing (They'll say "fine") and pretty soon you'll be talking with them for real.
Join clubs, or band, or chorus, or a sport, or school newspaper.
Do something where you will mingle with boys.
Something good will happen!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com