it feels like we never spend enough time together

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hey there. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 and a half years. we sufferd a break up like a year ago but we resolved our probs and everything has been good up untill now. Lately i am feeling really insecure and i don't know y. I think maybe it is because lately she has been doing a lot of personal projects and our time together has been limited. when we are together i can never get enough of her and it feels like we never spend enough time together. I have to work long hours and she is unemployed at the moment so its like she is always having fun. i do admitt i wish i could be doing more stuff with her and this is making me jealous i think. its also making me act in ways i wouldnt. however i always have to arrange to see her. i have to call her, text message her and arrange eveything we do, she rarely calls me, without me calling her first i think she is used to me always calling her first and she expects me to call. However this is making me feel rejected and today we was in my bedroom just watching the television and she just got up and left, she said bye and that was it. i normally take her home, i have took her home everytime for the last year. I am just so confused

Thank you for your time. Advice
I am confused too. What is wrong with her?

You work long hours and she is unemployed but still she can't make enough time for you. You have to do all the calling.

You need to have a long honest, trusting, caring, and loving conversation with her and find out what is troubling her. Find out why she just walked out when you were watching TV. Sometimes talking over the details helps bring out the bigger problems.

Good luck!

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