its like im stuck between a rock and a hard place

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hey there im a first time writer lol so i hope you guys can help me. i like my friend. pretty original huh? well i really like her in fact im in love with her. school just started up again and now i see her again, i havent seen her all summer. we have known each other for about three years and we were never close but we would talk and hang out in school. besides me feeling so strong for her she has a boyfriend. shes been dating him since last october or november i guess. im pretty sure she doesnt know i like her. perhaps the best way to describe would be she might think there is something there but shes not sure of how strong and to what degree but im guessing here. i just dont know what to do as i have very strong feelings for her and she is in this serious relationship and its like im stuck between a rock and a hard place. today i saw her for the first time and i was kinda mean, like not talkative at all and i dont even know why. its like i dont want to see her while shes got a bf. but now i have to cause we work at the same place on tues and thurs. please help me guys im in love with this girl. thanks so much Advice
You can't really do much as long as she has a boyfriend.

The best idea is to become her best friend and be there as a shoulder to lean on. Share feelings with her and if she ever breaks up with her boyfriend, you will be there waiting for her.

Good luck!

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