Her and sister suggest we play truth or dareVisitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I met this girl at a bar about six months ago we were draged out by someone else. We hit it off well I thought. After hanging for about an hour she was flirty with me and touchy and of course that was good but I thought maybe it were the drinks. Anyway I had to go, she told me she had a fun time with me and asked for my number. I gave my number and she told that her number was not working so then I knew I'll never get a call from her so I teased her alittle about it, all in good fun. She kissed me then I left.
So the months pass, some friends and I go to a bar and 20 mins there I feel a stare off to the side of me and turn back to the bar. Then I feel a tap and turn to see this girl at first I didn't recognize her, she is with her sister. She asked if I remember and I said I'm sorry I don't. She explained where we met and that she lost my number. I did remember of course after she said we met a bar. I played it that I kinda remembered her. So we hung out and talked for few minutes and then she invites us to go to another bar. I didn't really want to go but she was persistant about it and finally we said yes. As we walked we talked about whats new, during this time she was touching and holding my hand a little. We get to other bar, hang out get to know another a little more and at this time shes touching my leg alot and being flirty. The bar was closing we walked back to our cars and she says that we should come back to her place. At her place we hang out have few more drinks and relax. Her and sister suggest we play truth or dare, this went on for an hour or so and during this time she kissing and touching me. So we go outside where she then asked if I wanted to leave. I said no but on if you want us to go we can. She said I want you to stay. I didn't realize she meant over night. She tells me that she really wants me to stay and not to go. Five o'clock rolls around and we are all tired and I finally say "do you want to get to bed" She looked at me with the about time eyes and said yes. I thought great I'll get some sleep now. Well we talked and cuddled we started making out and doing other things. We wanted to go all the way but I asked if it might be to soon, she said yes and both agreed to wait. We went on with other things, besides I was to nervous and it had been a while when I told her she was cool about it. Later in the moring we wake up and my roommate who and been with her sister and hit it off. He said he needed to go, so we did the good byes and she said "call me" and I said you call me to because I'm not good at this.
Did say and do the right thing?
Please help me make sense out of this.
I hope my question made sense
She likes you and has picked you at a bar. Then she takes you home and gets in bed with you. No telling whether this will happen again.
If you are interested in sex with her, you may have blown your chance. The way to find out is to call her and make a dinner date with her followed by drinks. The same scenario may play out again and perhaps you'll be more ready for it.
Otherwise wait and see if she calls you... it is unlikely in my opinion.
-- from George
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