today he might have a baby born that is his by some girl

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well i have been dating my boyfriend for since i was in the 7th grade. When he went to high he cheated on me but we were still with each. we broke up ut we still were with each other. i had other boyfriends and he had girlfriends. I would party alot and i am sure him. then we got toether in my 10th grade year his 11th. i still thought he cheated and i tried sometimes too be others i couldn't. we wanted to have a baby. i got into fights with girls about him. i got him cheating. i graduated and i not cheating and i trust him and now and he isn't cheating, but today he might have a baby born that is his by some girl that i fought with and was his ex-girlfriend. his dogs live at this girls house because we can't have pets where we live. i moved to hawaii from california away from my family. The baby might be his he doesn't know for sure because she fooled around with other people. our relationship is better away from it but we fight and argue about him getting a DNA and what should do. I hate that he might have a baby with someonelse. i want to just call her and yell at her because we fight because all of sudden she is pregant by my boyfriend. Advice
You don't know that it is his child.

If she doesn't ask for money then I advise to let sleeping dogs lie and don't have a DNA test. If she asks for money then, of course, you would have the DNA test done.

In either case you need to stop arguing about it because that is just going to cause your relationship harm.

Good luck!

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