i told him that i was unhappy and he took it pretty badly
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i am writing about my relationship, i have been with my mate for since i was a freshman in highschool i'm now 22. we have been living together for 3 yrs and also have a 2year old together. i am conserned because i have episodes of depression that are triggered from unhappiness. i was once desperately in love with him but am not sure anymore. i know he loves me and wants to be with me forever but at times i don't feel the same and at times i do. i told him that i was unhappy and he took it pretty badly at first and later desperately wanted me to stay and try and work on the relationship. my question is if i will ever stop feeling so bad and have genuine feelings for him? is it possible to fall in love again?
if we need to move on i'm not sure he would want to he would want to stay together for our child. would that work?
The answer is crystal clear... you two need to get a professional therapist to help you figure this out. You both have the right heart but need a little help in expressing it. A therapist can help you figure this out.
-- from George
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