I met this dude (we were both extras) in a movie being filmed in my hometown
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I met this dude (we were both extras) in a movie being filmed in my hometown. Hes from here as well, and I struck up a conversation, and it really started out innocent on my end, just like an update on our scene being filmed etc. But he kept slipping in these flirtatious "Im interested" (like when I mentioned knowing someone who moved near this certain place in town we were talking about he asked "friend? like a boyfriend? do you have a boyfriend?") kind of comments and asked for a piece of paper. I thought he was just giving me the address for his band, but the slip had his email and phone number on it.
So then I did check out his bands site, and I emailed him. He hasnt called or emailed me back. Now Im thinking maybe he has been busy and doesnt check his email- would it be desperate for me to call him? His band is playing somewhere in a few days and Im going with some friends to check it out- is he just not interested in me? I guess when youre waiting it seems like forever, but today is Sunday and this exchange happened on Wedensday. I dont want to be "smitten" but I am and I cant help it. Im too old for this crap! help!
I don't see anything wrong in giving him a call.
Verify that his band is playing where you think it will and ask any other chit-chat question you can think of. His response could give you a clue as to his level of interest.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com