I know that he gets alot of attention from other girls since he is in a band
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I met my best friend in highschool. We share the same interests in everything. I knew that I liked him from the beginning and one day I let him know how I felt. He said that he also had feelings for me but, he didn't want to ruin our friendship. I understood that, so nothing happened and we continued to be friends without it being weird. But, everytime a guy would like me he would get a little jealous and vice versa. I moved away and we talked when we could. He was doing his own thing and so was I, so we drifted apart. One day I called him out of the blue and he was so happy to hear from me. I am now moving up to Michigan where he is located and now I know I will be able to see him more and watch him play in his band. This is where it is complicated for me. I still have feelings for him and I have always liked him. I know that he gets alot of attention from other girls since he is in a band, and I am fine with that. But, I also know that those girls don't know him like I do and they just want to be able to say that they are with him cause he's in a band and he's popular. I also know that his music comes first to him and I understand that, not many people would be able to handle that. I don't know if I should tell him how I feel again or just not say anything. Please help.
You should tell him how you feel.
He probably has a girlfriend already unless he told you otherwise. So the going could be tough.
Just be your normal self and let him be his normal self and you two should be fine.
-- from George
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