i dont know how to initiate these sorts of verbal emotion.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My situation is a bit different from those posted previously. This guy that I'm interested in was an ex. We're both university students. He broke things off with me almost 2yrs ago, saying that we were "too much alike", it was a huge shocker to me cause this happened after we had a real petty/childish fight. It seemed like he was waiting for something to go wrong to leave. So I let him, no sense me trying to make things work if he wasn't willing to , yah feel me? So we went our separate ways both agreeing to just be friends. However, we never spoke at all during that time. Now out of the blue he starts calling me during the summer since i've been back from school, saying he was thinking about me and wondered if we could hang out. I had no problem with that so we chilled, almost everyday for the entire summer. Of course a spark was still there and one thing lead to another... Now he's returned to school sent me an email about how he misses me and thinks about me constantly. Out of 4 yrs this is the most I've ever seen of him expressing his thoughts. He never used to email me back then. But I wonder if he just misses me b/c we spent so much time together. Am I reading too much into this? I guess our main thing is lack of communication and i dont know how to initiate these sorts of verbal emotion. Help me.
There is a trick to communications and it is called honesty.
As long as you are gentle, compassionate, and loving as you do it, honesty is the cure to most communications problems.
So think about it and figure out what you honestly feel about him and let him know about it.
Don't make snap decisions. Honesty requires mature reflection on the subject at hand. This is not to say you shouldn't be spontaneous. You have to balance the two so that the real you comes out.
-- from George
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