she claims she still loves me and i dont think shes cheating

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Dear Romance Class,

My girlfriend and i have been togeather going on 10 months. I can easlit say this is the best relationship of my life, i love her with all of my heart. This is a feeling she will agree with as well. However after we had passed the nine month mark i had now become the longest relationship she had ever had with someone. Mine is 12 months. After the 9 month mark things began to change. she called less frequently, rarely said i love you on the phone, and showed less interest in seeing me. when i confronted her she said beenig with me for so long has made her scared and feeling smothered, eventhough i did nothing wrong or different to cause this. She said she needed some time to herself. however in the following weeks she actually went out more often to bars and clubs with freinds. so its not time to herself just time away from me. she claims she still loves me and i dont think shes cheating, but i want to know if there is any hope for me. should i continue giving space or break up so i cant start to move on?

RomanceClass.com Advice
Call every so often and ask how she is doing (call once a week)

If you continue to get the cold shoulder then you should consider moving on.

Good luck!
George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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