Is She in Love with me?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
There's this beautiful girl i know, and lately i began to analyze her behavior, and the things she does. A friend told me she might be in love of me and I'm trying to understand. I would appreciate your opinion.
Some things she does/did are:
-When went out (a group of friends and her) she said a couple of times that I was with her and that I shouldn't leave her if the group separated, which was something already planned.
When we are talking she sometimes asks me what I think of some of her behavior or if I think she is like this or that. She also tells me how should be the girl I get and things like that.
She has said things to defend my behavior in front of others.
She seems to look for things to do with me like going out to the movies, church or anything.
One day, she even presented to a friend of mine as my girlfriend and that's when my friend told me maybe she could want something with me.
What do you think? Is that true? Is she in love of me?
Love is something that people develop over time with each other, after knowing each other, talking with each other, understanding each other. You two aren't at the stage yet where you're even talking to each other about your feelings, so I imagine it's not quite love yet :)
But it does sound like she's fond of you. So work on the friendship! The key to any relationship is being able to TALK to each other about these sorts of things. The fact that you're asking me instead of asking her directly means you're not quite there yet. So start talking to her! Get to know her better, get to the point where you two can talk about just about anything. That's when the real emotions will start to develop, and you two will become closer ...
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com