This lying had been eating away at me so I decided to just come out and tell her the truth

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I have been dating my GF for a year now. Very early on in the relationship she asked me how many girls I had been with I had been with one which I was not comfortable telling her and she pryed and I lied and told her 4 because I felt embarrased about. I continued to lie about it when it came up because I felt like if I told her the truth she would want to end the relationship so I did not know what to do. This lying had been eating away at me for months so I decided to just come out and tell her the truth. She is totally hurt by this and can barely speak to me right now. She knows that I want to trust her and then I just threw her trust right in her face. It is killing me that I could do this to someone I care for so dearly. I just got in too deep and was an idiot. I just would like some advice on trying to make things right, I never would want to hurt her and have not lied about anything else. I did lie to her face though on a few occasions about thing and she is hurt and I am devastated right now. Any advice is appreciated. Thank You. Advice
The best thing you can do is show her the email you sent above so she can see objectively that you are truly remorseful and that you won't lie to her again.

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