1 ARGUEMENT TENDS TO LEAD INTO AN ARRAY OF INSULTS,CUSSING
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I HAVE BEEN DATING A GEM FOR ABOUT 2 AND HALF YEARS NOW AND I FEEL LIKE WE ARE DRIFTING. SHE HAS A SHORT FUSE WHEN IT COMES TO CONTROL ISSUES. EXAMPLE. ARGUEMENTS OVER THE SMALL STUFF. THIS ALSO PUTS OUR SEX LIFE INTO SELDOMNESS. 1 ARGUEMENT TENDS TO LEAD INTO AN ARRAY OF INSULTS,CUSSING, AND EVENTUALLY JUST SPLITTING UP FOR THE DAY.. SHE'S GOING THRU JOB DECISIONS AND JUST TRYING TO FIND A CAREER THAT CAN SUPPLY HER FINACIALLY.. THIS ADDS STRESS TO OUR RELATIONSHIP.. WHEN WE FIRST HOOKED UP SHE SEEMED MORE STRESSFREE AND LOVING . HOW CAN REVERSE THIS DRAMA AND HELP HER BE A LITTLE LESS UPTIGHT AND MORE LOVING? THANKU
Can you say "Yes, dear" ?
While she is under this stress, just agree with whatever she says. It shouldn't take too long before your habits of fighting will smooth over.
Be honest with her and tell her you are tired of fighting and that your way of dealing with it will be to agree with most everything she suggests.
Probably will work.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com