i feel miserable for the past six months
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and my ex broke up half a month ago... But i still love him very very much... i tried to forget him by keeping myself busy... but i realise i still can't forget him... i tried every way that was taught on this webbie to gain back his love but was it was of no use... he even told me that he hated me and would never love mi again because i hurt him deeply and make him lose his pride... He even told me that life with me is like hell and he would rather die.. I not sure he say this to me because he wanted me to give up as he has a girlfriend now or he mean it... we have not contact for quite a few months and from what i know he seems quite loving with his current girlfriend...please dun ask me to give up, i tried but i can't. I really really love him... i feel miserable for the past six months... he once said that it is only possible after one year so that he can forget everything... i dunno he mean it or just want me to stop pester him... I really need help from you... please advise me on how to gain my ex back.... please
The real answer is for you to move on, but you don't want to hear that.
So, the next thing to try is to become good friends with him again. This means stop trying to be his girlfriend and instead try to be his friend. If you can successfully do this, you have a chance of getting him back.
-- from George
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