she tells me she loves me and i dont know if i am just paranoid but i dont know if she means it
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i am age 16-20 Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and a half now. Things going great, but in the first 5 months we broke up, and she had sex with another guy, sure we weren together but it still hurt, but since we were not together i gave her another chance, but 7 months later, there is a guy at her work named c* he reminds her of me, but she says her feeling for him are gone, i ant trippin over that, i know i trust her, but she tells me she loves me and i dont know if i am just perinoid but i dont know if she means it, sometimes she happy and sometimes she sad, and in bad moods, most of it has to do with 3 of her relatives dieing in one week. I am beeing her for her, but what i am wondering, could she really love me just be dealing with a hard time right now. Or she just acting and then liking other guys, she knows i love her , and she says she has proven it, i cant explain it, but i feel like i am given way more than i am giving what do i do? Talk to her or TRY TO WORK IT OUT, bUT IF SHE ONE THING THAT SHE HAS NEVER DONE IS LIE TO ME SO I BELEIVE SHE ANT CHEATING ON ME, BUT I AM JUST ASKING YOU PLEASE HELP ME I LOVE HER AND I AM WILLING DO TO ANY AND EVERYTHING TO KEEP HER. NO ITS NOT DESPERATION, I KNOW PELENTY OF GIRLS, BUT I HAVE FALLEN IN LOVE AND I DONT WANT TO GO THROUGH ALL THIS AGAIN WITH ANYONE ELESE/././././././././././.
This seems to be a confusing situation but I don't think it is.
You said she has never lied to you.
Starting with that, then you have nothing to worry about. It is only natural for her to have emotional ups and downs given the deaths in her family.
My advice is to keep talking to her as normal and be especially attentive to her feelings. Be open to conversation, be supportive, be trusting, and be caring. Things will work out fine, I believe.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com