I've been seeing this guy for 9 months now. Everything is still cool
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I've been seeing this guy for 9 months now. Everything is still cool. We enjoy being with each other, we see each other about once to twice a month. I seen him twice last week at work retirement parties. (which he had asked me previously if I was going to attend them) We were together last Thursday. I asked him if he was tired of me yet and he said no, I asked him if he would eventually get tired of me and he said no. I asked him if he likes having sex with me and he said yes, I asked why, and he said he just does and he knows he won't get tired of me. He then asked if I was going to an upcoming party, I said I don't think so. I really enjoy being with him. I think about him alot, do you think he thinks about me? I've dated alot of guys but this one gets to me. Although I don't want him to know that. He's going on vacation next week for two weeks. I'm going on vacation after that for two weeks, so I probably won't see him until the middle of August. I want to see him before that, which is this week but I don't want to seem clingy or needy. Should I call him this week or just wait until August? Do you think he likes me as much as I like him?
It sounds to me like you two like each other equally.
You seem to be on the same wavelength.
Unless he's too busy packing, you should try to get together with him before he goes so he has you fresh in his memory.
Have a happy vacation and good luck!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com