is there a way i can make her see that i trust her?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hi i have been with this amazeing girl for three years. after 2 years she cheated on me with some of my friends. we broke up for about 4 months and i missed her like crazy, so we we go back to gether for a few months then i asked her to be my g/f again because i kno it was a mistake what she did.we were so inlove and obssed with each other.but i did not trust her as much as i did before when i went back out with her. i would always ask where she was and ask who she was with also ask for her phone so i can see who she called.for the time we were together before we went out again she never lied to me and told me everything and i accused her and made her feel bad because i didnt trust her. so she said she was gonna leave me if i accused her again. one night she was at a freinds house and didnt call me and i got really mad and accused her again! that night was 2 weeks ago n she ended it with me because i accused her again and told her it wouldnt happen again. But now that she left me she wont beleive a word that i say to her becase ive said almost all of it to her before. and every time i talk to her she is mad at me and dosent want to talk to me. is there a way i can make her see that i trust her? a way that i can show her? because she wont beleive one word i say and
all i want is her back because i didnt realize what i had till she was gone.
No you cannot convince her that you trust her.
The reason is that you do NOT trust her. Everything you wrote shows over and over how you don't trust her.
And, I don't blame you for not trusting her.
Your best bet is to move on with your life and find a girl who you can trust. You will find it difficult to trust easily after what happened to you. But all you can do is to try your best.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com