shes got noone and feels lonely

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theres a girl ive got very close to and i asked her to be my girlfriend she said "no not at the moment ive had enough of lads and dont want to be in a relationship, i reli reli like u and wanna stay close, we are more like best mates"

ive overheard her talking about how shes got noone and feels lonely and i dont know if i should ask her out again but the problem is that she is going through a lot at the moment with her family. I love her so much and she likes me but more as a best mate and i dont know what to do. Advice
It's possible to not want a relationship and yet at the same time feel lonely.

So, what she told you could be the complete truth. Stay best mates with her and over time she may grow to want you as a boyfriend.

Telling her again that you care for her will not help the situation much, but you might try it and see how it works. My advice is to wait.

Good luck!

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