I'm a sixteen year old junior in high school, and I'm havin girl problems
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I'm a sixteen year old junior in high school, and I'm havin girl problems. Ever since I first met her, I have liked her. I met her about two years ago, and have never liked anybody more. I have been in previous relationships that I thought I would call love, but they don't even compare to how I feel about her. I don't think that I love her, I know I love her. My problem is that she knows I really like her, and nothing is happening. I know she knows I like her but she couldnt' possibly know how much... and she has "liked me before" but that probably doesn't have anything to do with the situation. We are really good friends, but I just want to show her, and prove to everybody else how much I like her, and how far I would go with her. I am looking for any advice to help me out, because the whole situation has me extremely depressed. I would take a bullet for this girl, and she doens't even acknoledge that I like her. What should I do?
Ask her out.
Rather than let the gossip mill tell her that you like her... tell her yourself. You may be pleasantly surprised or you may be unplesantly surprised by her reply. In either case it is better to ask than to wonder.
Try to make it casual, don't blow right out and say you love her... that might scare her off. Let the relationship grow slowly so she feels comfortable.
-- from George
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