when i told him that i loved him he stoped talking to me for the rest of the camp duration
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hey romance class... ive been asking you guys questions for over a year and i have this problem that ive had for over a year but i never thought to ask you...i go to a camp for a 3 weeks and last year i met a guy who was just a friend at first...but it wasent long before (for some reason) i fell in love with him... yes in LOVE with him... i told him this and it turned out he had a girlfriend of a year and a half...i had a boyfriend but this guy was special...when i told him that i loved him he stoped talking to me for the rest of the camp duration until the very last day... he apologised for ignoring me but said that he thought we were getting to close as friends... as soon as he said sorry and we talked it out i got right back to loving him...i am now single and so is he... ive never told him again that i still love him because of the fear of destroying the close friendship we have now... camp is in 3 days and i would appriciate it if u answered me before that... should i tell him i love him? i would do anything for this guy... he means a lot to me... but i cant keep my feelings locked up forever... they get bundled inside me... PLEASE WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!
You should tell him that you are starting to develop feelings for him again and wonder how he feels about you. Don't tell him you love him because that is too much for him to absorb all at once.
If he says he doesn't have feelings for you then make sure he understands that you still want to be friends.
I wish you luck!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com