his dad is and was very controlling with his g/f and old wifes, could my husband have got it from him?

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I am 5 months pregnant and we have only been married for 9 months. Well ever since it seems like we can't get along for nothing. We probably bicker just about everyday and it seems to always turn out that he either ends up saying to me he can't deal with this anymore or threatens me with divorce. Sometimes he throws things around (not is own stuff) calls me names (I am a @itch quite a bit). I have gotten to the point to talking with my mom about things but she doesn't know eveything. Today I just got the feeling there was no more hope, I am really confused, hurt and don't want to put our baby through divorce and niether does he because it happend with our parents. Also hear his dad is and was very controlling with his g/f and old wifes, could my husband have seen that and got it from him?

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You better get to a professional counselor soon.

Otherwise you will probably have a miserable life until you get divorced.

Tell your husband that you think that you should go to a marriage counselor because you two can't get along together and that you want to avoid a divorce.

He probably won't want to go, but he has to.

Good luck!

-- from George
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