I really like this boy, but our relaationship becomes sharp whenever I flirt
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I am in a big relationship problem. I am 14 years old, and have attended school with the same boy all my life. As you could guess, I am madly in love with this boy, but I only just realized that. Now, its summer. He is gone. I miss him. Thats not the problem. The problem is that, I am the girl who everyone loves. (at least thats what my friends tell me- all my friends) Some people say I have problem with flirting. I agree. This boy and I got really close (so close I ended up with a hickey), and we started to like eachother. Our relationship went downhill when my ex came to see me, and he and I had a short fling.
I really like this boy, but our realationship becomes sharp whenever I flirt - it's just my nature! I want to make it work, i really do, but I still want to feel free.
How could I make this work, and ask him out?
Signed - Hopeless
Whenever you date a guy, make sure he understands that you have a flirty nature and it's not going to change. Sure you can control it a little bit and compromise on certain items, but nothing is going to chance your basic nature.
So, get back together with this boy and let him know where you stand. He will either have to live with it or not. Don't try to make sure self over just for him... it is bound to fail.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com