should we give eachother up or should i keep fighting the good fight and change my ways to get her back.

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well this is the problem i want my ex back so bad but i dont know if i can trust her.she cheated on me with 3 of my best friends and 1 other guy.but this is the thing i cheated on her to and she has forgiving me but i cant find it in my heart to forgive her.we have decided to be friends w/benifits over and over again but i cant handle acting like we're together and us not being together i cant handle seeing her with other guys. and now i think we're done with eachother for good but we've said that before and we've always found our way back to each other.i think she is tired of me not trusting her with my heart and being jealous.its not that im jealous its just that i cant see my life w/out her in it.and i dont want to lose her but i dont know if she wants me back and today is the first day we haven't talked by choice in forever and i wanted to call her so bad but my will power wouldn't let me.and now i dont know if she still wants me or she wants to move on either way i can't see myself with anyone else and her parents dont like me so thats another thing we have to deal with but we delt with that for 1 year and 2 months. but i want her back so bad and sometimes it seems like she wants me back she still tells me she loves me but sometimes she acts like she hates me and doesnt want to talk to me and i do the same to her we have a love/hate relationship some times we love eachother and some times we dont. what im askin you is should we give eachother up or should i keep fighting the good fight and change my ways to get her back. Advice
You should forget it.

Both of you have proven that you are not compatible for each other. The things you can resolve now will pursue you as long as you maintain a relationship.

Imagine if you were to get married. It would be a disaster. And there might be children involved. Why get yourself into something that is not going to work out.

You can't make this work, so why try?

Sorry my advice is so gloomy, but that is the way I see it.
Good luck!

-- from George
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