should i be open to trust him?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i'm 14yrs old and i've been going out with a 17yr old for now a month and a week exactly.We really do have a thing going we've been getting very close every time we spend more time wiht eachother.He said that if we maintain a honest, loyal and trusting relationship we might just go out for a few yrs.I do belive that can happen but my problem is i've got a thing about trusting when it comes to having a relationship and i don't even know why.I know that he can trust me and i'll always be loyal to him!But can i trust him? This one's difficult cause we both know that we can't really have sexual intercause because of my age.WE bothe love each other very much!He and i have never felt like this before.The main reason why i think that i can't trust him enough is blamed on our age differencs(i think) Because what if he wants to have intercause and i'm not there? K he doesn't seem the type.But i guess if it really is love that i should trust him cause he loves me. he said that he's never told a girl B4 that he loves her. And i'm happy to be his should i be open to trust him? Advice
Generally you should always trust someone until they break the trust.

So, I would advise you to trust your boyfriend. Keep having long, honest, open, loving, and respectful conversations with him about things you both care about... especially your relationship.

This is a good way to develop trust.

Best wishes!

-- from George
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