Why does he do this and make me feel bad for things I shouldnt feel bad about? And why do I still love him?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hi, well about a month ago my ex and I got back together. Not dating just considering it. And then he calls me up after 3 weeks and tells me he decided he doesnt want a relationship because he wants to have fun and do things with other girls. I said, ok well just call if you ever change your mind. A couple days later I hang out with a guyfriend of mine and then about a week later my ex calls me. He wanted to get back together so we did and we were dating then he found out about me hanging out with my guyfriend. He cussed at me and yelled and told me I was a whore. Why does he do this and make me feel bad for things I shouldnt feel bad about? And why do I still love him?

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There is no accounting for love... so I can't tell you why you still love him.

He was wrong to curse at you as he was the one to suggest breaking up and seeing other people.

If you still love him, then try your best to explain to him why you were hanging out with another guy. Tell him you love him and want him back.

There is a good chance that he will take you back.

My best wishes are with you!

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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