i knew they were talking about my girlfriend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
My Girlfriend and i have been dating for about a month, but seeing each other for about 3 months. We have a great time when were together and spend almost every night together. In about 2 weeks, im leaving for a month. We decided that we would "keep it open" while i left, but we both say that we dont want our relationship to end. But, the other night when i was at her house, two guys came over who were "messed up" and they talked for about 30 minutes, but in front of her house and she calls this guy all the time. Hes about 4 years older than her. Tonight, at the hot tub, i came back from changing, and all of our friends were talking in the hot tub, and i over heard one of them say "Shes all over him", and i knew they were talking about my girlfriend, but the him... wasnt me. It also just happens that she was on the phone when i came back and i knew it was that guy. Also, she told one of my friends that whatever happens when im gone, happens. What should i do? When shes with me, i know she still likes me, and i still like her. I dont want this to end. What should i do?
You have no proof about anything your wrote about.
Have a very open and honest conversation with her and find out what is going on. If she is cheating, it won't take much effort for her to come clean with you. Ask her especially about what will happen while you are apart. That is where she will reveal her true self.
I hope that things turn out good for you!
-- from George
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