Will he ever want to be with me?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I met a guy, I am falling pretty hard for him. However, when we talk it is usaually because I have called him, sometimes he will call if I haven't. When we first started talking he would tell me that he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship with anybody right now. He has been to my house and we did what two adults do when the feelings are there. He still tells me that he doesn't want to be with anybody right now, but when I tell him that I feel the same way, he says "Are you sure?" Anymore I don't know what to think.... Can you help??? Will he ever want to be with me?
You are doing well with him.
It is too early in your relationship to predict how it will go. Just keep a gentle touch and enjoy what you have. Don't make it more than what it is right now.
If he is going to have stronger feeling for you it will come out in the future. My sense is that if you work with him slowly he will come your way.
Best of luck!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com