I don't want him to touch me I can't even look at him anymore. But I can't leave him I love him so much.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Last weekend I went to this party with my boyfriend and well he started drinking and started acting stupid. So I had one of my friends take me home. I have my own house and my boyfriend has his own key. Well in the middle of the night he went over after he left the party. He was drunk and forced himself on me. The next morning he had no idea what had went on, he still don't. I don't want him to touch me I can't even look at him anymore. But I can't leave him I love him so much. What sould I do?
Basically, he raped you.
That's why you feel so bad about what happened. That and the fact that he could have done such a thing... and it might have been somebody else he attacked.
You have to make up your mind whether your love for him is more important than what he did to you. As part of this, he should promise to never get that drunk again.
I can't advise you on this, you have to make the decision but consider what I have said above.
Good luck to you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com