So I asked oh where have you been? And he got mad and said Its none of your damn business
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Sometimes when I call my boyfriend to see if he wants to do soemthing he will say things like well I dunno what I am doing yet or well maybe Im not sure. Recently I asked him and he replied that he was going to his dad's house and didn't know what he was doing. He called me two hours later and I asked what he had been upto. Normal question I thought. He said he was just going ot his dad's house. So I asked oh where have you been? And he got mad and said Its none of your damn business. And then proceeded to say I didnt trust him and if I did I wouldnt be asking that. But yet on other days I ask and he tells me right away. Whats the deal? Should I be worried?
I think it is a little premature for you to be worried about what your boyfriend is up to for two hours.
He probably reacted the way he did because he felt you were trying to keep too tight of a leash on him. Nobody likes to be clutched at so tightly.
So, don't let one instance bother you too much. If you start getting other kinds of clues that might make you think he is up to no good, that's the time to start worrying.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com