Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Ok this is killing me. I have been comming here for a couple of months since stuff has been going wrong in my life. Me and my GF have been together for 3 & 1/2 years, but in the last 6 months things have gone horribly wrong. At first we borke up then she was with ter boss. I found this hard to believe because she said she was so hurt. Then we got back together and things were fine once again. Then all of the sudden she said that she wasn't sure if this is what she wanted. So I told her that we could take a month break and then take it from there. The only condition was that we would not see anyone else. She told me that she truly loved me and knew that we would be together in the end. SO anywyas, we were only broken up for about a week and she slept with a different guy twice. How could she do this??? Less then a week????? I told her that there was no way we could work this out, but now I just need to know how to get through this. I loved her so much and she led me to believe that she loved me. Then this. I am dying inside. I left out so many details because it would have taken all day to write this. Do you have any advice on how to get over this??? Please help I am in dire need right now.
Sorry this happened to you!
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