Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
okay so i have lived with my boyfriend for 8 months 350 miles away from our friends and family were from OH and he moved to IL 2 years ago for college and then i had to make the decision if i should move to be with him. now were moving back in october of this year and his mom and step dad dont feel comfortable with us living together with them. but yet they dont care if i sleep the all the time or am there constantly ?so when we move back hell have a place to stay rent free and i wont live with him anymore. on top of it only being weird that i wont live with him anymore i dont have any place to go besides a friends place and i dont think that would work out for too long b/c i think wed drive eachother crazy. or my dads or moms but they are going threw a divorce and i didnt get along with them very well. so what can i do to try and make them understand my situation and try to convince them to let me move in besides they are moving out in a year and bulding there own house and leaving the one now to my boyfriend. I AM SO CONFUSED
To convince your boyfriend's father and mother to let you live with them offer them money... like in rent.
Presumably you are going to get a job and will be able to afford it.
Worst case, move in with your friend and work hard at making it work.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com