i am willing to change the things she used to complain about, what do u think?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I want my ex back, i dated a girl for a year, she was my first girlfriend and first love, I went thru highschool without date number one until i met her on april of my senior, i never had any luck with girls, i would get easily used by the girls i liked, but when i met her everything just clicked, we met, three days later she was my gf and 5 days later we had sex and a year later nothing changed. A month before we broke up she said she just wants to be friends with benefits and i agreed hoping there was a chance of becoming her boyfriend again. Our relationship was the samething everyday. i picked her up from work and brought her to school and after school we would come to my house even after we were friends with benefits none of that changed. I was completly happy with the way it was. she wasnt and eventually she broke up with me cause she got bored and she got tired of complaining about me to her mom, i would do anything to get her back. the things she would complain about was stupid things like the way i cooked and the way i smell, lol, i just dont see how u can just lose a year of feelings with complaining, right now we are just friends and im happy that she is still in my life but i want to have her as my girlfriend, i am willing to change the things she used to complain about, what do u think?
Definitely change those things she complained about.
In fact, you are lucky she has told you her complaints. Some guys get dumped and the ex won't say what the problem was. So get your act cleaned up and show her you can change for the better.
That's the best way you can convince her to come back again.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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Same with guys