I have a crush ...
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I'm rather self-concious and shy. Very very. I'm 16 years old, not bad looking, but nothing special. I go to very small school, there are only about 15 girls in my grade. I don't have too much competition though. Most of the girls at one ime or another have had a crush on me, they've told me. Excpet the one that makes me lose my breathe. Shes not even the best looking, but you know, she just makes me feel good. I still feel she is out of my league, and i'm not exactly popular at my school, because i'm so antisocial.
who can i let her know how i feel about her without coming on too strong? and what can i do to get her to feel the same? Thank you.
It sounds like you're wisely choosing with your heart and not with the MTV must-be-model-perfect attitude. Which is great!! Outer beauty fades very quickly in life, but if you find someone you are really HAPPY with, that makes your entire life happy and fun. That is one of the most important things you can possibly find in a person.
It's Valentine's Day! Write her out a short poem on a card or piece of paper, and give it to her. It doesn't need to be fancy or decorated or anything. Just let her know that you think she's special. That is one of the best things any girl can ever hear, and I'm sure she'll appreciate it. Take things from there!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com