I also told him I wasn't going to call anymore, that it was his turn and for him to call me whenever. That was a week ago
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Okay, I'm the one who told him, "I still dig you but I don't have time for your games". So a few days passed after I had texted messaged him. There was a big meeting at our company, I did not know he was going to be there. Anyway, I walked in with my boss (male). Right away, he saw me. I saw him but acted like I didn't. There was only standing room so my boss and I had to stand. Everytime I looked up he was looking at me, then would turn away. He was sitting way in front. When the meeting was over we walked out the back. I don't know how he got from the front to the back so fast, but anyway we walked out and as soon as I turned around he was right up in my face and said, How's it going? I said good, how are you? He said okay,then he told me that him and the guys were going out to get a drink, and I said oh yeah? Where, he said he didn't know yet. We really couldn't talk because there were alot of employees around,this time he didn't say to call him. After work, I decided to call him, since he went out of his way to talk to me. He didn't answer but a minute later he called me back and asked what I was doing later that night. I told him I had to go home. I mentioned the message I left and asked if we were still cool. He said of course we are, you know that, why do you think I went and talked to you. So from then on whenever I called he would call me right back. We were supposed to get together the next night,he said he would call me after he got out of school. I thought yeah, right. Well, he did call but I missesd both his calls. Who's playing games now huh? I called him the next morning to apologize, he didn't answer but called back a few minutes later. We talked about getting together the following week. I texted messaged him the following week and told him I was available on Thursday. I told him I would call after work, if he didn't answer then I knew he was busy. I also told him I wasn't going to call anymore, that it was his turn and for him to call me whenever. That was a week ago. Well I saw him yesterday at work, we smiled at each other and waived. (that's all we could do)I wanted to call him so bad but I just can't. I keep telling myself, if he wants to see me, he'll call if not then he doesn't. I saw him again (same day) one of the attorneys (male) was talking to me, he looked over but then turned away. Do you think he is still interested in me? Do you think he'll ever call? I know I am going to see him in the next few weeks at work due to upcoming events:)
Obviously you like him and he likes you but he isn't a phoning type.
You have to decide, again, whether you like him enough to continue doing the calling or not.
When you go out, casually ask him why he never calls.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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