i am seeing a twin currently and have grown close to her sister who just broke up with my best friend.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i am seeing a twin currently and have grown close to her sister who just broke up with my best friend. there is no problem there at all. the problem is this guy from there work who just always shows up and never leaves. when my girlfriend and i were just feeling eachother out, he would flirt with her right in front of my face.when he got the idea that he didnt stand a chance, he turned on her sis. her boyfriend lives 3 hours away at college. well, they broke up last week and last night we all fell asleep on the couch and i awoke to see them kissing and feeling each other up. the thing is, this guy is a joke. not just tthat, but he also liked my girlfriend just 2 weeks ago. i dont know if i should confront her or if i should just jet it go, but i feel that she was just lonly and horny and wanted to get some. but over all, i dont think she likes him. so my question is, #1, why does this make me want to puke? and also, should i try to get her to end this? its sick but i wish that if she needed to get off, she should have come to me and let me find her friend. this guy is total trash. i feel so sick about the situation. also, i feel that i should tell my friend/her ex what happened but i cant and its killing me.
While you may have personal feelings about this situation, it is really none of your business.
Just so I got the story straight: your girlfriend's twin sister was making out with a guy you dislike. Your best friend used to date the twin sister.
Telling your friend won't make him happy so don't do it.
Pay no attention to what the twin is doing because it's not your business. Keep your fingers crossed and hope they don't last.
You might want to discuss this with your girl just so she knows what's going on in your head... but realize that it will get back to the twin.
Best of luck with this situation!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com