she likes me again however she has a boyfriend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Well im 16 and well me and this girl have dated twice only ending in splitting up, the first time i met her i loved her i knew it and we spent 3 months together not going out but just friends with benefits and it was working out great, i asked her out and then suddenly after bout a month broke up, she said she had family issues,so of course i still had feelings for her and tryed so hard to get her back and it worked so i thought we went out again after talking for a few weeks and ended up breaking up at about a months time, now i have waited 3 months and she says she likes me again however she has a boyfriend, and now i really don't know how to act around her or anything should i keep pursuing her because i do honestly love this girl, and i just dont think theres any way i can move on, what should i do??
The best you can do is stay her friend.
If things work out well, and she splits up with her boyfriend then you will be there waiting.
Meanwhile try to build up your strengths and eliminate your weakness.
For example if your strengths are cheerfullness, honesty, and trust make sure you emphasize those when you talk with her.
On the other hand if your weeknesses are (for example) jealousy, anger, and unfriendly then work hard at eliminating those characteristics.
Even if things don't work out with this girl, you will have made yourself a better person for the future.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com