i think that the 3 of them like him because there always flirting with him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hi! first of all i would just like to thank you in advance for just listening to my problem. ok well Its kinda simple i guess. My boyfriend of 9 months has alot of close friends that are members of the opposite sex. Sometimes i think that the 3 of them like him because there always flirting with him. more than friendly. It makes me upset that they think they can flirt with him and expect me to do nothing about it or ignore it. Like one of them asked him if he had liked them previously because shes about to move and just wanted to know. and the other almost went out with him before us and always trys to flirt and stuff. Im so confused on what to think as well as what to do. any advice i would greatly appreciate. thanks J*
Those girls are being rude.
First thing is to talk with your boyfriend about it and ask him how he feels about it and how he feels about your being upset about it. If he is supportive of you, and he should be, then it will be easier.
When they start flirting and teasing, calmly put your arm around his waist and smile nicely at the girl. If they make any comments to you just smile and hug him tighter. It will drive them crazy.
This won't solve all the flirting but it will help some and the word will get around.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com