so we kissed for that whole half hour, and it was great

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PLEASE READ THIS WHOLE THING im really in a bad place and i need help!!!

i have been in a circle of 5 friends basically my whole high school career so far. I am 18 years old, and me and my friend M were the only guys. There were three girls, C, B, K, and R. i hung out with them all the time, and we had shared TONS of CRAZY experiences and we knew eachother really well. One day, me and B were driving around alone, and she ended up telling me that R wanted to be my make-out buddy. now, i thought this was awesome, saying as though im not very good looking and i dont get with really attractive girls very often, so this was cool. So, i started hanging out with R a lot more. we never did anything the first few times we hung out, we just watched tv and listened to music, and it turned out that after about a month and a half of that, i still hadnt made out with her, but i was falling in love with her. i know that love is a VERY strong word and truly it RARELY happens for REAL, but this was pure. i absolutely loved her, and one day at lunch, we went to my house and made out for about a half an hour, and it was beautiful. 'made out' is too harsh a term, so we kissed for that whole half hour, and it was great. so, im head over heels for this girl, and everything is great. a few weeks later, the night before spring break, we were cuddling on the couch in my basement watching the daily show, and kissing during the commercials. about fifteen minutes before we were supposed to meet my friend j* at work, my finger 'slid' into third base. anyway, that event just made me feel amazing that she and i were together, even though we werent dating really. so i go to costa rica for spring break, and when i came back after missing her so badly, i called her. she said she was busy. i called her the next day. she was hanging out with B and K. i stopped calling her, to see if she would call me back. its May 30 and she hasnt spoken to me since. neither have B, C, or K. what should i do when my friends leave me starving in the dark like this?? i have no idea why they did this to me. ive run completely out of ideas, but i want to be their friends again. i got an invitation to R's graduation party, but i still havent talked to her since that night before spring break. what do i do? should i talk to her at her party about it? or what?
-J* Advice
You should contact R and ask her why she's been stand-offish with you.

There may be some misunderstanding going around that needs to be clarified.
The same goes for the other friends, try to rebuild a relationship with them.

Why should you have your pleasant life disrupted for no good reason that you know of?

Work on getting this resolved soon. The longer you wait the worse it will get!

Good luck,

-- from George
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