my boyfriend of over a year broke up with me today

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hi, my boyfriend of over a year broke up with me today. he was my romeo and i was his juliette. we couldnt live without eachother. we spent every waking moment together. we even went to work with eachother just so we would be able to stare at eachother. we lived together until i lost the baby. then i moved out and all the bad came when i moved in with a girl friend so she can help me because of the pain of the miscarrage i just had.its strange though, i was pregnant with his baby until about a week ago. we were both exited to have the baby, we went shopping and got baby cloths together and loved eachother so much. then i had a miscarrage a week ago. and he broke up with me today. i want him to be with me still. how can i make him come back to me without sounding desprate? im going crazy. i have no idea what to do. we have a date to go to the movies in a couple of days... should i try to rekidle our love? or is it better the way it is? i need him with me so bad. he is my one and only. i want him back! how can i get him back with me?!? Advice
The best way to get you relationship going again is to talk with him.

Your conversations should be caring, honest, trusting, and self-revealing. If you can get him to talk to you on that level, there is a good chance that your relationship will rebuild itself along those lines.

All kinds of feelings get stirred up after a miscarriage, perhaps your ex is suffering himself. Try to find out.

Good luck!

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