My problem is my boyfriend just turned 18 and now he mentioned about going to a strip club

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My problem is my boyfriend just turned 18 and now he mentioned about going to a strip club. I just get chills when i think about him looking at other girls like that, but he doesn't seem to understand how that would make me feel. It's not like he doesn't get enough from me, but he wants to go.. Maybe could you give me insight on why he would want to go, or tell me a way to explain to him why I really don't want him to go? I've told him how I feel about it all, but he still doesn't seem to care.. Advice
Most men (and some women too) enjoy watching members of the opposite sex doing a strip tease in a club. It is natural curiousity.

Don't judge him too harshly for wanting to take part in a boy's night out. At least he is with friends and not off chasing other women.

You can tell him how you feel, but it won't convince him that he doesn't want to go but just that you are trying to keep him from having fun.

My advice is not to worry about it. He is being honest with you and that's important.

Good luck!

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