we finally got our togetherness going on Halloween morning up until about last month

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Ok,me and this guy met last year at a park with all of our other friends and hundreds of other people because their was this family thing going on. We are all 16 to 18 years old and we have all (except me and this guy) known eachother for years and years. So we meet, and that was that. Months later, he starts to show up to my best friends house to chill. WHich was cool bc he had a GF and all. SO i had no attraction to him at all. He's a Sagittarius by the way. Well, we finally got our togetherness going on Halloween morning up until about last month. I was raped and havent seen him since bc i had to stay home. He's always with other girls while his GF is away in the Phillipines on vacation. She has been gone for like 6 or 7 months now. She's coming back next wednesday, and I'm not ready for her too bc i am so JEALOUS. She's a model, she's gonna be exotic, she's already got huge lips and a gorgeous face and body. I feel like i'd look like a wimp next to this fighter model girl. And she's gonna LIVE with him! UGHHHHHHHH!!!! He knows how i feel somewhat, and he's always done the right thing, but what do i do? PLEASE HELP!!! :(

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The answer is painful.

You have no rights to this boy and should not be romantic with him.

He has a girlfriend and so he is off limits to you.

Except if you just want to be a friend with him... that's ok. And then you won't be jealous because he is your friend and you want your friend to be as happy as possible-- right?

Another good thing about being friends is that if he ever splits up with her you will be right there waiting for him.

Good luck!

-- from George
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