should i let this thing go? or should i confront him about this

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hello, my problem is really confusing. my boyfriend who i have been with for quite a while used to like some other girl. alot! but then i guess he stopped. and thats wen we met. nad now four months later. he and i are doing great. but there is this website that people go to called myspace. and its very hurtful. i deleted my account on it cause i couldnt stand it. a* has an account but he didnt delete it. i dont know why. but watever. well that girl he used to like has myspace and she and him added each other as friends. but something inside me tells me that he still likes her. wat do i do? i feel so sad. should i let this thing go? or should i confront him about this. i am so sad and lonely. i dont know what to do. help! Advice
You should not confront him about it.

Instead, you should have a gentle, honest, respectful, attentive, and loving discussion of matters that trouble you.

Bring up this topic not as an accusation but simply to let him know how you feel about it. He should be willing to listen or he isn't much of a boyfriend.

Don't let jealous habits ruin your relationship. Fight against them until they give up trying to bug you.

Good luck!

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