Lately he has been wanting to hang out with his friends almost everyday.Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have been with my boyfriend for two years and he is perfect. He adores me and we love eachother more than anything and he has never done anything wrong or anything to make me not trust him. Lately he has been wanting to hang out with his friends almost everyday. This only bugs me because he hasn't really cared to hang out a lot with them ever since we started dating. I get so jealous when he tells me he wants to hang out with them. I never really care about hanging out with my friends that much either so I kind of feel left alone when he leaves. Why am I so jealous of his friends that I don't have a problem with?
You need to compromise with him.
It's only guesswork as to why he wants to hang out with his friends nowadays. You might want to have a discussion with him on that subject and try to find out.
Meanwhile, you two need to find a compromise where both of you get some part of what you want. In other words, he should spend every other day with you and the other days with his friends.
It shouldn't be his right to just tell you that he is going to see his friends and not see you. It should be a mutual agreement.
Sorry you are in this situation.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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