Do you think I have the right to be upset because he called another girl before he called me?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
well the other day my boyfriend was at his job for the first day, and when he got on brake he called this girl but didnt call me. I ended up going up to his work (he works at an amusement park) and he met up with me and when i met up with him he was talking to the girl. And i got a little upset because he didnt call me all day and then he tells me that he called her. All i could think is why did her name pop up into his head instead of mine. I dont know this girl and my boyfriend claims that he dosent like her but he has told me what she looks like before and he said that she has eletric blue eyes and a nice butt and i didnt like what he was saying so i got upset. Do you think i have the right to be upset becuase he called another girl before he called me? I dont care about the fact that he talks to her but the fact that he thought of calling her instead of calling his own girlfriend. What should i feel about this? someone help me...
Sure you have the right to be upset.
Tell him that you want to be the first person in his mind and that he should have called you first.
It's also wrong for him to tell you what he likes about her in such glowing terems. He seems to be playing a game with you.
My advice is to let him know that you deserve better and if you don't get it then it's bye bye baby.
-- from George
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