What should i do? were did i go wrong, is there anyway i can get him back?Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My ex boyfriend and i were dating for 6 months tommrow ( we broke up 5 days ago on Prom night) and he says he still loves me and that he is so sorry he broke up with me but he just dosnt want to hurt me anymore ( he has a yelling problem) I said that he was only hurting me more by not being with me. I finly got to the root of the problem, he says he wnats to be alone, and i tould him he is never alon ( he is popular and is always with peope) and he went on to tell me about how befor he had me he was alone all the time and he was just fine, i think he just wants to Drink and part and not have to worry about doing soemthing taht will hurt me. He is graduating soon and I dunno im just so missrible all my friends say i need to move on but i cant All i knwo is that I love him and that should be enough. He also said that another problem was that he always stays at my house longer than he intends to (when he is supose to be drinking with his friends) and i have to exsplain to him that i get up to say bye and that he always just ends up laying back down bc he dosnt want to go, I dont see how this is my fult. I asked him if he felt for me like when you get a new puppie, You love your puppie in the begging so much and never want to leave it alone untill it just gets old and boring and then you feel so strong for it again when its hurt and sad and you dont wnat to be with out it for a while and he said ya that was how it was. It wa sliek a dagar through my heart. It also dosnt help taht he wa steh first guy i had sex with. I want him back so much.. i need him back, i feel so lonly bc he wa sthe only person taht actualy took care of me and showed me love, my parents are in a loveless marrige and we have a whole lot going on in are family and he always came to see me even when i was sick with Mono he was at my house everyday befor and after school for almost a month adn eh would just lay with me and hold me and it was the best thing ever. He says mabe in a month 2 months or mabe a year he wants to get back with me but i cant wait that long i need him back now or need to get over him now, ive done evything in my power to get him back ive brought him to tear, i think he truly feels sorry for not being with me but im not sure why he isnt if he loves me taht much. What should i do? were did i go wrong, is terhe anyway i can get him back? I love this boy and that is all i know. I never wanted to fall in love at my aga and i was kinda thrown in it. Please help me! Im 16 he just turned 18
Sam P.S. its long but i thought it might help
The best you can do is to remain friends with him and continue to let him know you love him.
You have already tried very hard to get him back but with no luck. So, keep the lines of communication open and if your love is meant to be, it will be.
Meanwhile get back to living your life. You only get once chance to go around in this earth.
Best wishes to you!
-- from George
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