currently the only way that i talk to him is to call his job
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have a friend whom i care about alot he has always been my heart we have known each other for about 6 or 7 years. I have feelings for him. he has been through alot he was supposed to get married last year but the girl called it off and then 3 months later married someone else he went through a bad depressed state. before this I always kept in touch even if i only talked to him once a year I always seemed to call when he needed me the most. I call him a magician because he tends to disappear when things get real bad and he really had a hard life at the end of last year I called him and his mom took the mesassage then he immediately called me back ( ihad not seen or talked with him in about a year) he was bitter and angry and i told him I wanted to see him we made a date but something came up I did not hear from him until january and he sounded so different so happy he started going back to church and getting his life on track he wanted to see me so the next day we went out after going out he called me everyday at first i was scared because i knew what he had ben through and I felt that he was getting attached but then that feeling passed he continued to call me everyday 3-4 times a day he if he forgot to call me back and it got late he left a good night message on my phone this went on for about 3 months we went out a few more times but everything stopped suddenly he had some problems with his roommate and then moved out I did not hear from him i went to his job and found out that alot of bad stuff had happened and he was really going through he did not have a stable place so he did not call I started going to his job because i was worried he told me that he had ADHD which I kind of figured because i am in the masters program for psychology.
currently the only way that i talk to him is to call his job and he really can not talk I really like him and we have had some real emotional conversations but now if i don't pick him up from work i don't seee or talk to him I want to tell him how i feel I had bought him a gift when he was going through i wanted to kind of brighten his day he asked me what he did to deseve it I couldn't even tell him that I honestly care for him I reall want to but I do not know if it is the right thing or how I really want to know if he has feelings for me we communicate so good open and honestly. I really don't know hat the next step should bebut I care about him so much what should i do
he is a really good guy I just wish i could talk with
Sounds like you have found the answer already.
Pick him up after work and find some way to have conversations with him. Take him out for a drink or just drive around.
You didn't say that you felt romantic about him, but on the off chance that you do, my advice is to take it slowly and let the friendly conversation lead to more deeper relationships.
I hope this works out for you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com