Does he have feelings for me? Or just friendship?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hello. There is a guy I met back in October and we became close friends fast. He started flirting with me now, dropping hints left and right. I countered, because it's my natural personality. He's been doing things like poking me to get my attention when we're hanging with my friends, always competing playfully. (I am a very competitive person). All of our friends percieve us as a couple without the hugging/kissing. This week we did something moving in fast, and both backed off. I asked him to wait so we can talk, he waited three hours until I got there. So we're back at a normal pace, I don't know what that is. Does he have feelings for me? Or just friendship?
I think he has feelings for you.
If you have feelings for him, talk to him alone sometime and say "I am developing feelings for you. How do you feel?" That's a pretty non-threatening way of saying you are starting to like him.
I think things will go well for you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com