What can I do to get over hime?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i really have a problem with my ex, so i need your advice.
we loved each other 1 year ago. everything at that time was very great. he fully trusted in me but i didn't (because my first love had left me without saying goodbye). never did i trust in him 'though he did many things to show his real love for me. the suspeciousness caused many unexpected things. i acted like i was a fool. suspeciousness and jealousy blinded me. we argued, got bored and finally, we broke up.
i was depressed a long time. but later, i recognized that i could make the situation better if i try again. and now, i'm trying to get him back. first, i've mailed for him, sent him some small gifts. i feel comfortable when i do that but after that, what i should do next, i really dont know. he answered me nothing but his silence. it's hard for me to know what he's thinking about me. and by some of his best friends, they all told me that i should give up, cause he didn't love me anymore. but i dont know why i didn't believe them. i feel that if i try harder, show him my real love, show him that i really changed, he surely comes back. he used to love me very much. this love can't easily change.
i really need an advice. i'm still loving him much. i want him back cause i believe we can make everything better. please, tell me what i have to do.
You need to give this guy the door.
You have received every possible feedback that should tell you that he is not interested in returning to your former relationship.
One last chance you have is to meet him personally and explain your feelings for him and ask him how he feels. If he says no, you know where you stand.
Sometimes it's better to let bygones be bygones.
-- from George
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