Me and my girlfriend always argue and we break up
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Me and my girlfriend always argue and we break up off and on and now she doesnt want to be with me anymore because i didnt want her go to the mall with a lot of boys and she go mad and we argued and she broke up with me. I love so much. When we get in fights i get really mad and i leave bruises sometimes from grabbing her because she wont talk to me about it and she didnt want me to go to the mall with her becasue none of the guys like me and i dont like them and she knows that i get in a lot of fights over her. and i tried to talk to her all the time and she just says "NO LEAVE ME ALONE I DONT WANT TO BE WITH YOU" but then again some times she says that she loves me and that she wants to be with me. I dont know wat to do Pleas help me to get her back. We have been dating for over a year off and on and now she doesnt want me back. I am 16 and she is 14 almost 15.
Don't go out with any girl until you learn some self-control.
See the school psychologist and get some help with your anger problem. There is no way you should be "bruising" a girl. Imagine how much worse this is going to be as you get older. The only answer is to get help. It isn't your fault you are the way you are, but it is your fault if you don't do something about it.
You have my very best wishes in solving your problem!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com